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RHOP Season 11 Episode 3 Recap: Tia Confronts Gizelle Over the Podcast, and Stacey and Thiemo Get Re-Engaged

A birthday party with almost no husbands, a podcast line Robyn cut, and a dog carrying an engagement ring. Here's what happened in 'She Said, She Said!'

Stacey Rusch, a Real Housewives of Potomac cast member, in a portrait
Stacey Rusch, whose fiancé Thiemo re-proposes to her in RHOP Season 11 Episode 3. Photo: stacey rusch / Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 (cropped)
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Spoilers for Season 11 Episode 3, “She Said, She Said!”, which aired Sunday, October 25, 2026 on Bravo. In short: Wendy tells Gizelle that calling her a scammer was hurtful, and Gizelle apologizes. Robyn reveals that Gizelle hinted at Tia’s marriage problems on their podcast and that she cut it. Ashley passes that on to Tia, who confronts Gizelle at Courtney’s party for her husband, Alexis. Ashley and Robyn end the night screaming at each other. Earlier, Thiemo re-proposes to Stacey with the help of her dog (Vulture; Reality Blurb).

New to the season? Start with our RHOP Season 11 cast and where to watch guide. For the storyline behind this week’s fight, see Tia and Rob Glover: what happened, and are they still together?

Wendy and Gizelle: “the S word”

Wendy learned that Gizelle had been calling her a scammer. Over a one-on-one meal, Wendy told Gizelle the word carries a particular cultural weight when it’s said about a Nigerian person. Gizelle said she hadn’t thought about that, and apologized for using “the S word.” According to Reality Blurb’s recap, it stung more because Wendy had just donated to the National Brain Tumor Society in memory of Gizelle’s father. Gizelle then asked Wendy, a confident public speaker, for advice on an upcoming visit to Congress, where she plans to tell her father’s story (Reality Blurb; Vulture).

Robyn reveals the podcast line she cut

After a GNA “workout wellness” event run by Gizelle and Ashley, Robyn told the group that Gizelle had referred to Tia’s marriage troubles again while they were recording their podcast. Gizelle told listeners they’d hear about it “in six months.” Robyn said she edited it out before the episode was released. Gizelle replied that it wasn’t their job to put Tia’s “business in the streets.” Ashley, who Vulture notes was still annoyed with Robyn about earlier podcast talk, went on to tell Tia what Gizelle had said (Vulture).

Tia vs. Gizelle at Courtney’s party

Newcomer Courtney Ajinça threw a birthday party for her husband, Alexis, and invited the women and their husbands so the men could meet him. Hardly anyone brought a partner. Courtney didn’t invite Karen’s husband, and Tia came alone.

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Gizelle made the first move, telling Tia off for repeating to Wendy what Gizelle had said about her. Tia turned it around and raised the podcast comment. When Gizelle struggled to explain it, Tia said:

“As long as you can get a check, anybody’s pain, anybody’s family, that is free game for your success. And that kind of friendship, my dear, I don’t want it.”

Gizelle called the whole thing a misunderstanding. Then Robyn arrived and confirmed what Gizelle had said on the recording: “You’ll hear about it in six months” (Vulture).

Ashley vs. Robyn

At dinner, Ashley said it was odd for Robyn to bring up the podcast edit in front of everyone. Robyn pointed out that Ashley was the one who first raised Tia’s situation on stage in front of a live audience. The two started screaming at each other, and the evening ended with what Reality Blurb calls a forced toast to Alexis (Reality Blurb).

Stacey and Thiemo are engaged again

At a dinner for two, Stacey and Thiemo talked about how hard it had been to get back on the same page. Then Stacey’s dog came to the table wearing an engagement ring, and Thiemo proposed again. According to Reality Blurb, they plan to marry soon. At the party, Stacey mentioned that she already had a “credible” wedding planner, which the recap read as a dig at Courtney, who is an event planner (Reality Blurb).

Karen Huger speaking into a microphone in Washington, D.C., in 2022
Karen Huger at a Real Housewives of Potomac season 7 premiere viewing party in Washington, D.C., in October 2022. Photo: CityLimitsJunction / Wikimedia Commons, CC0

Also this week

  • Karen said her marriage had been in trouble long before her recovery, and that her sessions with her trauma therapist will stay off camera (Reality Blurb; Vulture).
  • Tia’s mother, Yetunde, arrived for a long visit. Reality Blurb says she’s staying three months.
  • Tia showed Courtney and Alexis around a house she’s thinking of buying in the D.C. area.
  • Cynthia Bailey and Monique Samuels both turned up at the party.

How to watch RHOP Season 11

New episodes air Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on Bravo and stream the next day on Peacock. In the UK, the US Real Housewives shows stream on hayu (Bravo). More on the franchise is on our Real Housewives hub.

Sources

  • Vulture, “The Real Housewives of Potomac Recap: A Friend to All Is a Friend to None” (Season 11, Episode 3, “She Said, She Said!”): vulture.com
  • Reality Blurb, “RHOP Recap: Wendy Confronts Gizelle for Calling Her a Scammer…” (October 25, 2026): realityblurb.com
  • Bravo, “RHOP Season 11: Everything to know”: bravotv.com
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